Colleen Singer, sex commentator and expert says that while most men have figured out that foreplay is the key to a killer orgasm for most women (more on that later) — what most don’t realize.
I like to think that sex for a man is a plated dinner while sex for a woman is a buffet. For men, there’s the Main Event (penis in vagina sex) that they want, but for women there are so many more options and we want to sample a few small plates.
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Contrary to popular belief, you don't need a working knowledge of 52 sex positions or a background in porn to be ridiculously good in bed. Instead, it comes down to more subtle (and realistic. Good sex is about one thing and one thing only: communication. Cliché, you might say? Yeah, well your mom is cliché.
For a long time I assumed that “good sex,”—at least to men—meant all the acrobatics and accessories you can imagine. It was a pretty intimidating thought, actually, that made me figure I.